Getting ready to propose is thrilling, but trying to figure out your significant other's ring size without giving away the surprise can be the most daunting aspect of the whole process. You want the proposal to go perfectly, and you want the engagement ring to fit them perfectly, but you also want to do so without creating any suspicion.
There are many people trying to secretly find their partner's ring size. It is one of the most common questions being searched for when planning a proposal, especially for those looking for lab-created diamonds or custom-created rings that are size-specific.
There are plenty of discreet and effective ways to accomplish this task. Let's go over a few.
How To Find Ring Size Secretly Without Directly Inquiring
Finding your partner's ring size secretly requires the person to be subtle and to have accurate information regarding his/her size. Here are two methods that can be used that do not require uncomfortable questions or obvious measuring devices.
1. Get a Ring from Your Partner
The best method of determining a person's size is to secretly obtain a ring your partner currently wears, provided it is worn on the left-hand ring finger. If your partner does not wear rings on the left hand, a ring your partner wears on the right hand (or even a finger from the right hand) can provide valuable information regarding the person's size.
Once you have access to your partner's ring:
Place the ring on a ring size chart, OR Make a sketch of the inner-diameter of the ring on a piece of paper (try to draw the most accurate circle possible). OR Take the ring to a jeweler where they can use a ring sizer to determine your partner's ring size. If you are currently considering lab-created diamonds, this method can be very useful if you are currently in the process of evaluating lab-made diamond engagement rings or comparing styles in-store. Asking a partner for their information regarding ring size can be tricky. There are ways to find out your partner's ring size without asking directly.
2. Use a Ring They Wear Regularly (Without Them Knowing)
If your partner takes off his/her rings at night, the timing would be ideal. Slide the ring on your own finger, mark it to see where it fits or gently measure the inner diameter using a ruler.
This method is a great way to find the ring size without having to ask your partner and still keep your proposal plans completely secret from them.
3. Approach Their Close Friends or Family For Sizing Information (Very Carefully)
The easiest way to uncover someone's ring size is to approach their friends or family. A close friend, sibling, or parent will likely know their size already, or they could ask without raising any suspicions.
Having an idea of the style your partner typically prefers is very helpful in your search. For example, perhaps you know your girlfriend does not like large rings, so you may want to avoid large rings or perhaps your partner told you they prefer lab-created diamond rings.
Fun Ways To Discover Ring Size Without Asking
If your partner does not wear rings frequently, then you need to be creative.
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Make It About a Fun Shopping Moment
Next time you are out shopping or searching online, take the opportunity to try on rings "for fun." If they fit, you can observe what size they wear. If you do not already have an idea of the kind of jewellery your partner is looking for, take the opportunity to try on matching jewellery like lab-created diamond bracelets or everyday styles of jewellery.
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Use an Object or Your Finger to Size the Ring
If you hold hands with your loved one, compare the size of their finger to yours, and you can gain some insight into their size. While this gives you an approximation, it allows you to narrow the range of sizes down. You could also discreetly take comparisons of the ring finger of your loved one with objects such as: a pen, a bottle top, or a piece of string (measure the piece of string later).
These types of observations will provide more accurate information for determining their ring size than just giving a guess.
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Why Ring Size is Important
When it comes to buying an engagement ring, the style and looks are very important; however, you want to ensure that it is comfortable and can be worn every day. This is why accurately identifying your partner's engagement ring size is so important:
- It will not just fall off.
- It is a natural ring size for your loved one.
- The proposal will be smooth.
Although most jewellers can resize rings after the fact, many intricate lab-created rings can get a much better fit when the jeweller has some idea what the size will be when making the ring.
Avoiding Common Mistakes When Sizing Rings Secretly
When figuring out a size secretly, the following points are useful to remember:
- Fingers will tend to swell when it is hot and shrink when the weather gets cold.
- Generally, the dominant hand will be bigger than the non-dominant hand.
- Wider bands may require a larger size due to space issues.
When in doubt between sizes, you are generally safe to go one size up. Although slightly larger rings can easily be adjusted, a size that doesn't fit cannot be resized.
FAQs: How To Discover Ring Sizes Secretly
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What's the best method of obtaining an accurate and secret size for my partner's ring?
The best solution is to borrow a ring your partner already has and have it sized by a jeweller. This allows you to find their ring size in a discreet manner without raising any suspicions.
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Can I use my partner's height or weight to determine what their ring size will be?
No, this method will not be accurate. Using your partner's body type may help provide an estimate; however, this is not reliable when determining your partner's ring size.
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Do I need to have the engagement ring made exactly to size?
While many rings are able to be resized, in particular lab-created diamonds, it is important to ensure that you get as close to the correct size for your partner to provide them with the best chance for a smooth proposal.
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What if my partner does not have an actual ring? How can I find out their ring size without asking?
If your partner does not have an actual ring, there are many alternate methods. Asking friends if they can provide insight about your partner's ring size, casually observing comparisons of fingers with your partner, or encouraging your partner to try on casual jewellery will help provide you with a larger probability of accurately determining their ring size.
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Does the type of ring make a difference regarding sizing?
Yes, certainly. Due to the comfort level of wearing rings and their intended purpose, it is crucial that you get as close to the right size as possible for rings that are wider and also for certain styles of lab-created diamonds.
Conclusion
Finding your partner's ring size may appear to be an overwhelming situation; however, by using the above suggestions, there are numerous methods of successfully determining your partner's ring size without raising any suspicions. Pursuing a ring that is the correct size is also part of the plan for creating a proposal moment that your partner will hold dear for the rest of their life.